It’S Okay To Care

…I hear this paraphrase so often… “…I did so much for them and they gave me nothing…”…. mmmmmmm, kkaaayyyy, oh yes “They” did…. You got the #Gift of #Giving and if you understood the #joy of giving it would be sufficient, that Joy… It’s only about “getting a return” if it’s a gambling measure… Investing in Human endeavor pays for itself with/through recognition and appreciation…in one’s own heart and mind. Buy those flowers for yourself instead of waiting for another; that action is training in empathy…it starts with you. When you love yourself, give to yourself, forgive yourself first, it’s so much easier to give that to others.. try to lose “expect”, and “disappointment” becomes almost a misnomer.